Meditation 101: 20 Tips to Calm Your Mind

Twenty meditation tips for beginners through intermediates — practical, not mystical.

Getting started (7)

  1. Start with 5 minutes, not 20
  2. Same time each day
  3. Same place each day
  4. Use a guided app for the first month (Insight Timer, Headspace, Calm)
  5. Sit upright, not lying down (you'll fall asleep)
  6. Timer, so you don't clock-watch
  7. Close eyes or soft gaze — your choice

Technique (7)

  1. Follow the breath as the default anchor
  2. When distracted, gently return to the breath — that's the practice, not a failure
  3. Don't try to empty your mind; notice what arises
  4. Label thoughts: "thinking" or "planning" or "remembering"
  5. Body scan when breath feels stale
  6. Metta (loving-kindness) on difficult days
  7. Walking meditation counts — attention to movement

Sustaining (6)

  1. Miss a day, not two
  2. Don't measure by how "good" the sitting was
  3. Extend by 5 minutes each month only if natural
  4. Retreat for a day once or twice a year
  5. Join a community — local sangha, online group
  6. Read one book a year (Pema Chödrön, Jon Kabat-Zinn, Joseph Goldstein)

Twenty tips. Meditation is simple but not easy. Pick three from Getting Started; the rest follow as the practice takes hold.

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